A gift of love.

The most precious gift of love a man can make to his dancing woman is: ⁣DANCE WITH HER ❗️❗️❗️Nothing would make a dancing lady more happy than the willingness of her man to dance with her. As she may love and respect him, thus he will be always the person No. 1 she would love to dance with. ⁣
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💓 No flowers, no presents, no dinners, not even a new dress would interest a dancing lady more, than having him as a dance partner. Simply because dancing women are romantic. ⁣
💓 A man who dances with his women will cause happiness in her. This happiness in return will create enjoyment for him. ⁣
Isn’t it a big loss to miss this opportunity?

Guys, is it really too much to ask for? Why you don’t want to fulfil her desire with the pleasure of giving love? Imagine how many sacrifices in your favour, your woman has done and is doing now?

The heartbreaker.

📢 These 5 Big HEARTBREAKERS⁣ a man of a dancing woman can do:⁣
💔 1. A very big mistake a man can make is when he REJECTS his woman’s invitation to take a tango class together.⁣
💔 2. The second mistake he does when he DROPS OUT after the first trial, because of lack of selfesteem.⁣
💔 3. Heartbreaker No. 3 he makes when he shows NO INTEREST and SUPPORT in her new passion.⁣
💔 4. Fault No. 4 is when he THINKS and TALKS NEGATIVELY about his spouse’s activities. ⁣
💔 5. Finally he makes his last mistake is when he expresses his DISAGREMENT and PROHIBITION.⁣

His misconceptions

In many cases men think that dancing issues are not relevant to their relationship.

He assumes to have solved the problem by telling her generously to just go dancing alone. He will not even think for a minute about the following consequences.

He is sure she will get bored anyway and problem solved.

Her consequences.

The woman has finally accept his decision not joining her in this new adventure. She likes it or not, she will keep going on with her desire to dance.

With time, she has found new friends with the same interest and she will start to feel more and more comfortable with the situation.

Consequently, she develops an independent way to spend her free time, not only with dancing, but also with preparation the new hobby requires.

The checkmate situation.

This is the time when the husband/boyfriend is starting to get suspicious, if not to say jealous. Because she is dressing up fancy, putting make up on, questions will appear. Therefore, he is asking himself, if there is another man in the picture.

On her part she is just enjoying herself dancing and sharing a good time with her new friends.

Wearing nice dresses and super chic shoes is part of dancing in general for any woman. That ‘s why the transmission of the woman from non-dancer to dancer is also a statement in her physical appearance. It is hardly understandable for non-dancers.

Signs of anger , jealousy and mistrust on his part will lead to tensions in the relationship. She, just thinking of dancing and wearing beautiful outfits, enjoying her femininity in a very humble and down to earth sense, will start to feel being treated wrong and unloving.

Analysing the facts.

In conclusion, it depends very much on 4 different aspects how the problem develops. In their relationship itself, on the financial independence of her, the degree of her individual connection to dance and on her personality.

The Relationship.

A couple, which is in a loving and caring relationship, based on respect and understanding, is able to find a solution.

A solution, that works for both parts equally, without loosing on both ends. Power play is not the game in a loving relationship.

The influence of financial independence.

In case she is financially independent, the relationship will not be pressured by the power of money. She will keep going on with her new passion because she don’t see any wrongdoing by just following her heart . The man will be more carefully expressing his irritated feelings and probably willing to chose a soft approach.

In many casas she is depending on his good will, because of social or financial barriers. While he is power playing she will soon realise that she has to give up.

For sure, she will close the case in her heart unhappily with the label “unfulfilled dreams”.

A win for the husband? only on the surface! Power play is the save way into sinking.

Her individual connection to dance.

Generally seen, almost every woman likes to dance. This need is anchored in her genes. Understandable that the degree of connection to music and movement is individually different.

Especially relevant is the degree a women is enthusiastic about dancing, shall be a signal for the partner to loosen the strings and assist with support.

Her personality.

Characteristic attributes seen in a person may help to identify how serious she is in life, therefore, as well in her attempt to follow her dreams.

The solution.

Conflicts about “dancing” in a relationship is not an easy thing to solve. It is a much bigger issue for a couple than people might think of.

Due to solve the situations never underestimate the problem. First of all observe the case from all sides, not only from your own point of view.

In any case, love and support shall be the base of any relationship. Let’s start from here.

Love is the answer.

Therefore start from the bottom of your heart to fulfil her dream. Make it possible to dance with her. Overcome your ego and make it happen. Be a man! be courageous!

In case of failure in your attempt to dance , and this is very important, you may stop dancing. But keep social contact to the new circle of people. Accompany your woman to some events as a spectator and you will see how stressless all becomes.
You will see that jealousy has no reason to develop.

Cultivate social contacts

Shall after several attempts, let’s say after a trial period from 3 month, still, no sign of pleasure appear, you have done what can be done.

You have showed respect and good will. You have proven that it is not missing self esteem or the influence of joking friends that cause your malaise.

Further, when you see this clumsy guy who has started much later than you, became the star of the evening, your mind will tell you to give it another try.

Look for Harmony without sacrifice.

For the female part my suggestion is to always look for harmony with your partner, straight from the beginning. Your trial to convince him shall be in low dosage. Overdoing will produce anti-reaction.

Respect his decision and no complains from your part but keep dancing when your heart tells you to go.

Shall he join you in a class, never teach him, even you know better. Give all teaching aspects to the teacher. Implement the idea to change partners in class, to lessen tension.

Be a nice and a patient follower in class. Support him and praise him when he is down.

Respect and acceptance.

Never tell him that you do not understand his lead. Leave it to other people to correct him.

Constructive criticism still is a bitter pill for the partner in the beginning. Therefore be very gentle and patient with the situation. Respect his effort and accept a lack of talent with grace.

Always open the door for him to come in. Invite him to join you for social events. Support him in the idea to join you, even you already feel quite comfortable to go alone. Never give the impression that you don’t need him again.

The results.

Shall you fail to follow my suggestions, earlier or later you will split up, or the relationship will cool down without happiness for both of you.

Better, share your gift of love with your woman. Make the effort, you will be positively surprised in the end.

Have you followed all my proposals with good will, you will witness a life enriched with love and gratitude.

As a couple you will discover a new aspect of wellbeing, with new excitements to happen, active or passive on the dance floor